ss_blog_claim=c53e9ec92a7dc61f0c7fbc60e189fc3d The Endless Life's Journey: 5 ways to grip on jealousy

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5 ways to grip on jealousy

1- Learn from past experiences-Look at how your behavior affected past relationships and use that to help you behave better. You may soon discover that these tantrums are the cause of your troubled love life. Realize that getting upset with no reason won't help your situation.
2- Deal with reality-Focus on what is really happening, not what you perceive to be happening because with time, you may end up having difficulty distinguishing fact from fiction, and you don't want to kill an otherwise perfect relationship over things that never really happened. Don't let your imagination dictate the kind of person your love really is.
3- Respect yourself-Realize that your love chose you for a reason and there is no need for her/him to be so easily tempted elsewhere. Remind yourself that you're every bit as deserving as those guys/women you feel threatened by.
4- Get a third party's opinion-Ask a friend to take note of your behavior around your girlfriend/boyfriend. It may help you to fully understand the extent of your actions (as well as hers/him) by getting a neutral party's perspective.
5- Set some rules early on-Try establishing some general guidelines as to what is and isn't acceptable for you. This way, you'll both have justification for outbursts when either of you is behaving improperly


The Endless Life's Journey