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THINGS THAT KILLS YOUR LOVE LIFE

OK here's another things and tips for everyone that might help to have a better love life. thanks for reading my blogs...


The green-eyed monster

Excessive jealousy or possessiveness is the leading reason behind why people break up. If you are extremely possessive about your partner, you could be sabotaging your own love life. Nobody likes their life to be controlled by someone else. If your partner starts to feel concerned by your desire to always control what he or she is doing, they might just break free. If you are the type that gets jealous easily, the next time you feel the feeling surfacing, remind yourself that it could be worse for you to indulge in your jealousy, rather than ignore it. Talk to your partner instead, and explain that your possessiveness stems from the fact that you love him/her immensely and that you are willing to work on changing.

Sex

If you are having sexual problems in your relationship and do not talk to your partner about your issues, it could ruin your relation. Sex is not the only thing, but then, it is a natural desire. If there are problems in this department your best bet would be to voice your feelings. If you continue to remain silent, it could lead to frustration and you might end up losing your partner

The past

Let the past remain in the past, there is no point in bringing it up and allow it to affect your present. If you have issues, talk to your loved ones. If you allow these issues to build they will not only ruin your love life, but also extend to other relationships in your love life.

Money problems

Money can cause a lot of tension between two people who are intimate. The only way to solve money issues, is to reach middle ground. If you love shopping, limit your expenses. Similarly, the partner who likes to save should loosen his or her fist a little and learn to enjoy the money that is earned.

Former lovers

No one likes it if their partner still has feelings for their ex, or even an implication that their partner favours another's company. So, if you are still in touch with your ex, you need to stop it before it destroys your current relationship. If you feel that both of you are genuinely just friends with your respective ex's, learn to accept that. Otherwise you both need to sit down and have a talk as to where you stand in each other's lives, so that there is no room for doubt.

Why Blog?

Simple, i want to express my feelings, i want to share tips, advises and everything i could think of. Another reason for blogging is, i am getting paid to blog. Well of course unlike a regular job, blogging wont really pay you so much. you are just getting paid for how much your work is worth. But the good thing about blogging is you don't have a boss. You are your own boss. You could decide when to blog at your convenience. And also nobody can tell you what you want to express in your blogs. You could yell, scream, cry, shout in your words when you write in your blog and nobody has room to tell you its wrong. Its your blogs, do what you want to do with it and say what you want to say. But of course, be considerate with people around you too. If you do blogs that will offend people then of course, all you will get is negative comments. But like i said its your blog, who cares what you want to say. All people could do is leave negative comments. Its up to you if you would chose negative comments rather than good comments about a certain topic of your blogs. Just remember, you reap what you sow. Keep on blogging, keep on earning a few bucks for your own opinion and ideas.

5 ways to grip on jealousy

1- Learn from past experiences-Look at how your behavior affected past relationships and use that to help you behave better. You may soon discover that these tantrums are the cause of your troubled love life. Realize that getting upset with no reason won't help your situation.
2- Deal with reality-Focus on what is really happening, not what you perceive to be happening because with time, you may end up having difficulty distinguishing fact from fiction, and you don't want to kill an otherwise perfect relationship over things that never really happened. Don't let your imagination dictate the kind of person your love really is.
3- Respect yourself-Realize that your love chose you for a reason and there is no need for her/him to be so easily tempted elsewhere. Remind yourself that you're every bit as deserving as those guys/women you feel threatened by.
4- Get a third party's opinion-Ask a friend to take note of your behavior around your girlfriend/boyfriend. It may help you to fully understand the extent of your actions (as well as hers/him) by getting a neutral party's perspective.
5- Set some rules early on-Try establishing some general guidelines as to what is and isn't acceptable for you. This way, you'll both have justification for outbursts when either of you is behaving improperly

My God

This is a simple poem i wrote. thanks for reading


My God

You Are the Strength in my life
The Joy that makes me smile
Problems may come and trouble me
But you're always beside me

No matter how far is the heaven
Your love knows no end
I'll kneel down at your feet
To worship you my Lord

No matter how wide is the skies
You never forget to love me
You are my God
You are my strength
And my Joy

TEJI-F

Wondering whats the meaning of my title? well actually, its not really a word that you can find in the dictionary but its a name me and my friends since high school till now call our group. The T- stands for Thena and shes happily married now living with her husband and their 2 kids in nevada, las vegas. The E- stands for Eva, shes also happily married and expecting a baby soon, shes living with her husband in Fairbanks, Alaska. The J-stands for Jennilyn, shes in Cebu Philippines and happily working and in a relationship with her boyfriend since in college. The I-stands for Ivy, shes getting married soon with her boyfriend in Virginia. The F- stands for Felisa (yours truly). Notice the dash after the I? its because i was the last one to be involve with the group. Actually Thena and I known each other since in elementary, we became close friends but then she had to transfer schools when we was in grade 3. Since then, i dont hear from her already. Then we met again on our high school but still during our first year high school. We was in different sections. I was in section Science, while Jennilyn is section Technology, Eva, Thena and Ivy are in section 2 i guess. So actually it all started with Thena, Eva and Ivy then Jenjen is Ivy's neighbor so Jenjen was in the group too. and during that time I had other friends from my section. Not until our second year high school that we actually form that group. What happened was my Earthscience teacher in 1st year gave me a low grade so then I was out in the Science section because my grade did not met the rating for the Science section already on second year. So i was thrown to section 1 on my second year high school. The same thing happened with Jennilyn, she was out on the Technology section because her grades went low. Then Eva, Thena and Ivy, also was in section 1 already on second year high school. Thats when our friendship starts. And until now, though we are far from each other and each one has different lives or career, we are still in contact with each other. I will always treasure the friendship we have. To reminisce the days on our high school its really a colorful days of my life. The TEJI-F are crazy but one thing i am proud of my friends is we never get involve on drugs. I am proud to be a member of the TEJI-F. Memories will always remains. I love you my friends...

BRGY. GUINSAUGON PHILIPPINES TRAGEDY

Ok im herefor another blog and just remember something. Its a big Tragedy that happened in the Philippines last February 2006. The Brgy. guinsaugon tragedy wherein thousands of people been buried alive. Guinsaugon is a part of my province. I was there after the tragedy happened, i was with a group of volunteer doctors and missionary. We go there to give some helps and i was so sad to see the whole area. the whole brgy. guinsaugon is totally erased on the map of the Philippines. people buried alive and most was never recover even the bodies until this day. Landslides are not an isolated incident in Southern Leyte. Unusually heavy rain a couple of weeks before had liquefied entire mountain slopes and sent them sliding down. We spotted a few only a few kilometers from Guinsaugon. They stood out as ugly pale gashes on a lush landscape.
Guinsaugon sits at the foot of a mountain tall enough to have its own name--Mt. Can-abag. It looms 2,300 feet over the village. Southern Leyte sits on a fault line. Can-abag is but one of a series of steeply-sloped mountains that run down the island's middle like a gigantic spine. These mountains are composed of weathered, fractured rocks and soft soil. We went to the exact area where the landslide happen but we was not allowed to go nearer because that time they are still doing the rescue. It breaks my heart to see the whole area gone and whats left are mud. To think, there are a lot of people down buried alive on that mud, some people that was buried alive mostly the students and the teachers was still able to text their loved ones asking for help but to this day the school wasn't recover. cannot be traced anymore. The tragedy happens in February 17, 2006. The avalanche of rock debris which buried the whole barangay with a population of 1,857 has left, as of today 1, 328 persons missing and presumed dead and buried alive. During the search and rescue operation only 122 bodies were retrieved and 410 were found to have survived (20 of them rescued). When i was there, looking on the area and thinking of those people buried alive, i was thinking why God let it happen? The area smells bad already that time so we are not really allowed to go very near on the exact place.
But there is also one big tragedy that happens in leyte and this one is just 45 minutes drive from my hometown. It is a flash flood in Ormoc, City Philippines the hometown of my father. November 5, 1991 a flash flood kills almost 6, 000 people. But I'm happy to see ormoc now totally recovered, my uncle is the vice mayor now on ormoc. and if people would visit ormoc these days, the big tragedy that happens on 1991 cant be seen because of the big improvement of the area. But the Guinsaugon tragedy totally erased the whole barangay on the Philippine map. Im so lucky that even if a lot of tragedy was happening to the leyte provinces in the Philippines, my hometown never encounter such big tragedy and i thank God for protecting my hometown. I know those tragedy has a reason thats why it happens but if people would think, our life here on earth cannot be predicted. The guinsaugon tragedy is one proof and the ormoc tragedy that life cannot be predicted. In one glimpse everyone could be dead for a different reason.

Family or Riches?

Before i believe on the saying "Blood is thicker than water", but to hear stories of people whose family neglected them because of riches that just stop me from believing on that saying. How will you feel when you needed some help and you know that one of your family can really help but they refuse to do so just by thinking there is a possibility they will spend a dime by helping you? im for sure it wont give a smile on your face, worse is you dont need some financial help but some other help that your family can really do but still they dont help on the thought that their is a possibility that it will cost them money. Which one is really important? Your family or your riches?
Nowadays, people are being so greedy that they would rather neglect a family's call for help than spending their money. They are not thinking that their money cannot show them real love. That they cannot bring their money when they crook. I would feel great to be able to help someone in my family if i have the ability to do so. I would be grateful to be the one to help not the one to be asking help. But its sad to know people being rejected by their own family in exchange of wealth. Most has these thougths in their mind " I earned this money, this is mine, why would i share it?"
My opinion is if you have the ability to help financially then its not wrong to help those in needs especially if its someone from your family. Or help those hungry children in some poor countries. but what im saying is give with a clean heart, not just give or help just because in your thought people will admire you for being so gracious to share what you have. Would you rather chose to lose the respect and love of your family than losing your riches? Whatever you sow here on earth, you will reap it later. Would it be nice to know that for once in your life you did a favor for someone who needs it. Money cannot save your soul! Money is here on earth not to be love but to be able to use on the things you need. So dont love it, love the people around you. If its hard for you to share something, then you will never really find true happiness.

DREAMS

I LIKE IT WHEN I SLEEP AND WHEN I DREAM. IN DREAMS MY LIFE COULD BE DESIGN THE WAY I WANT IT TO BE. SPIRITUALLY, PHYSICALLY, MENTALLY AND MATERIALLY. IN DREAMS I COULD BE A VERY NICE PERSON, A PERSON WITH NO FAULT, A PERSON THAT EVERYONE TALK ABOUT HOW GOOD I AM. SPIRITUALLY IN MY DREAMS IT SEEMS YOU FIND NO BLEMISH ON ME. IN MY DREAMS PHYSICALLY I AM IN A PERFECT HEALTH, PERFECT FIT, SO MUCH ENERGY, AND I COULD DO ANYTHING I WANT THAT REQUIRES STRENGTH. IN MY DREAMS, I COULD BE THE BRIGHTEST WOMAN, INTELLIGENT, I COULD BE ADMIRE BECAUSE OF MY INTELLIGENCE. TEACHERS IN SCHOOL PRAISE THE BRAIN I HAVE. ALSO IN DREAMS, I COULD HAVE ANYTHING I WANT. MATERIAL AND FINANCIAL I LIKE IT WHEN I SLEEP AND WHEN I DREAM.
IN DREAMS MY LIFE COULD BE DESIGN THE WAY I WANT IT TO BE.
SPIRITUALLY, PHYSICALLY, MENTALLY AND MATERIALLY.
IN DREAMS I COULD BE A VERY NICE PERSON, A PERSON WITH NO FAULT, A PERSON THAT EVERYONE TALK ABOUT HOW GOOD I AM.
SPIRITUALLY IN MY DREAMS IT SEEMS YOU FIND NO BLEMISH ON ME.
IN MY DREAMS PHYSICALLY I AM IN A PERFECT HEALTH, PERFECT FIT, SO MUCH ENERGY, AND I COULD DO ANYTHING I WANT THAT REQUIRES STRENGTH.
IN MY DREAMS, I COULD BE THE BRIGHTEST WOMAN, INTELLIGENT, I COULD BE ADMIRE BECAUSE OF MY INTELLIGENCE.
TEACHERS IN SCHOOL PRAISE THE BRAIN I HAVE. ALSO IN DREAMS, I COULD HAVE ANYTHING I WANT.
MATERIAL AND FINANCIAL PROBLEMS DON'T EXIST IN MY DREAMS.
THINGS THAT I CANT HAVE IN REAL LIFE,I HAVE IT IN MY DREAMS. ALSO IN DREAMS, PERFECT PERSON DOES EXIST.
NO BAD WORDS, NO NAME CALLINGS, THERE ARE NO WHORE, NO BITCHES, NO MURDERER, NO BACK FIGHTER. IN DREAMS I COULD DESIGN MY WORLD.
WHAT I WANT TO HAVE AND WHAT I DON'T WANT TO HAVE. IN DREAMS, YOU COULD ALSO MAKE THE SPAN OF YOUR LIFE TO LAST A LONG TIME.
IN DREAMS, THERE WILL BE NO TEARS, NO PAINS AND HEARTACHES.
IN DREAMS I COULD ALWAYS DESIGN IT TO BE WHERE MY WHOLE WORLDS IS FILLED WITH LAUGHTER AND CHEERS.
IN DREAMS PEOPLE THAT HURT ME COULD BE SOMEONE ELSE, THEY COULD BE SOMEONE WHO IS MY FRIEND.
OR THEY COULD ALSO BE OUT OF MY WORLD AND DON'T EXIST AT ALL.
OR I COULD ALSO DESIGN MY OWN REVENGE, AND MAKE THEM SUFFER IN MY DREAM.
IN DREAM I COULD ALWAYS PUT THE RAINBOW IN THE SKIES. I COULD ALSO GROW BEAUTIFUL FLOWERS EVERYWHERE.
GREEN GRASS AND TREES GROWING AROUND MY WORLD. IN DREAMS ALSO SNAKES AND ANY KIND OF WORMS OR ANIMALS THAT I'M SCARED WONT EXIST. IN DREAMS MY WORLD WILL BE PERFECT.
I WANT TO SLEEP, I WANT TO DREAM.

Moon Landing, a Hoax!

You hear me right moonlanding to me is nothing but a hoax. It did not occur, its funny how they put it in school books as the biggest accomplishment of the USA. the moonlanding but theres a lot of evidences that aldrin and armstrong never walked in the moon. search it in youtube, theres a lot of evidences explaining how a lot of people been fooled believing all these years that USA was able to land in the moon. Though the evidences are clear but still a lot of people refuse to believe that really the moonlanding did not occur. But hey, search it yourself and you will see a lot of proof that moonlanding is nothing but a film show. Dont get mad on me for refusing to believe it but this is my opinion,i dont care what you believe. I added a video of this hoax. If you notice on this video, why the hell the american flag move? no air in the moon, there is no way this flag will move if its really in the moon. But if you notice on this video, when the austronaut passed the flag, the flag wave. No matter what NASA's explanation on that, they can't argue that the flag indeed move. So isnt that a hoax? no way, no how the flag could move in the moon just by the austronaut passing by. No matter how much you argue it, the fact still remains the flag was waving when the austronaut passed by it. Too impossible to happen when there is no air.

Electrifying Love And Devotion

Wow, this is great.i submitted my poem on some site but i put it under my husband's name and i cant believe it. my poem made it to the semi-final, out of thousands of poems submitted to that site. My poem is one of those who made it to the semi-final. I dont care if i put it under my husband's name and i dont care if i will not win. But to make it to the semi-final is a big accomplishment to me. here is the poem i submitted. you can rate it also by clicking the link above.


Electrifying Love And Devotion

You are the current of my life
And the voltage of my desire
You are the ampere of my dreams
That lightens the brown out of my brain

The ohm's of your hyperbolic body i can't forget
The short circuit of your gentle touch like a magnet
Hooked up to the midpoint of my solitary heart
To make the wire live, insulting the broken part

As I formulate the power of love
All i hear is my hearts lub-dub-dub
Like the current that flow and flow
I resist the foolish beat of it's glow

You're the kilowatthour of my ambition
Spliced to the profound core of my emotion
So be with me to the post of affection
I'll give you the Electrifying Love and Devotion

ARGUMENT

Ok, today me and my husband had an argument. You see, even if two people are so much in love, its never been exempted to have a little fight or an argument every now and then. But its up to the couple how they settle the arguments. But of course it wont be settle if only one wants to settle it and the other wont help. It should be both couple will help each other to settle the problem. For husband, avoid yelling at your wife or calling her names or using bad words. It mostly never helps but only wound up your wife's feeling evenmore. For the wife, listen to your husband when he is trying to explain, its ok to cry its our way to release pain but dont say something that is irritating on your husband's ears. It wont do good but makes him more mad. And the best way to settle it is to talk not to yell. Give each other a chance to say what she/he wants to say. Dont interrupt when the other is explaining, just pay attention and listen to what the other is saying. After that then its your turn to speak up. Be straight and honest, say what u want to say. Dont blame each other, accept each other's fault. Sorry is a nice word when you want to settle an argument. My husband and i when we fight we never let it grow it into a bigger more problem. It dont mean that when you are fighting, love is gone. True love will always stay deep. My husband and i would settle the problem after we both say what we want to say. Sorry is always the closure of the argument or fight and the word i love you is our assurance that everything is ok. Thats all i could share for now. Hope it helps on some couples.

HAPPY COUPLE FIGHTS

Every married couple will have disagreements. One of the keys to a successful relationship is knowing how to handle conflict. Avoiding conflict, walking on egg shells so to speak, being afraid of rocking the boat, or keeping peace at any price will hurt a marriage.

Here are some ways to handle marital disputes and resolve differences:

*Make sure you clarify what it is you are discussing.
*If either of you are too angry to discuss the situation or problem, then set a time to get together later to discuss it.
*Be flexible and open to other solutions than your own. A willingness to compromise is important
*Don't push one another's buttons. Don't be sarcastic or attack one another's self image
*Don't interrupt one another. Listen. Be aware of your own body language and what it may be saying.
*Talk in a calm, respectful voice. Ranting and raving accomplishes nothing.
*Remember that a fair argument can enhance a marriage. Fight for your marriage, not to win.

IS THIS LOVE OR A BAD TACO?

This one caught my attention on my research.

What is love? Is it when you:
Feel like someone hit you in the stomach, you can't catch your breath, and you can't think of anything to say. You just mumble and stutter a lot.
Have an exhilarating blast of seven quarts of blood to your head from a kiss – leaving you daydreaming and drooling.
Get a dry throat, clammy hands, sweaty armpits, and the little hairs on the back of your neck stand on end at the sight of him or her walking by.
Wish time would stop when you are together.
Spend days contemplating really important things like picking out names for the children you will have together.
Rehearse every detail of your wedding, like how many bridesmaids you will have and what color the dresses will be.

Love can be confusing. Is it just a good feeling that comes over you? Why the sweaty palms, dizziness, and weird stomach things- like when you're coming down with the flu, or ate something that hasn’t been kept at proper temperature?

Don’t you wish relationships were as simple as they were in grade school? Being in love then meant you had someone who would be nice to you on the playground and at lunchtime. But times change, and love is usually hard to figure out. Nowadays, love is easy to say and hard to do. We use just one word, “love”, in English. But in Greek, there are actually three words to describe three very different kinds of love.

Think about of love:

Love “because of”. This is a brotherly love that says, “ I love you because of who you are.” You love people with this love because they are your family, your teammates or your friends. The Greek word for this kind of love is “philio”. It’s the same idea as companionship or mutual regard.
Love “if”. Love “if “ is a kind of love derived from the sexual attraction that sometimes draws guys to girls and vise versa. Too often, it’s a confused love that depends on if:
You treat me right,
Your body turns me on,
You do what I like to do.
By itself, love “if” is a pretty shallow love that can change in a matter of seconds. The Greeks used the word “eros” for this love that is mostly physical and emotional.
Love “no matter what”. This kind of love is an unconditional love. It’s a love not tied down to what you do, what you look like, or whom you hang out with. In the Bible, it’s used to describe God’s love for us, a decision of commitment that never changes, a love that takes the first step toward someone. This is called “agape” in Greek. More than just our emotions, agape involves our mind and our will. Agape continues loving even when it’s been wronged or ignored, forgotten or snubbed. It’s an amazing love that never stops giving, even when it’s not getting anything in return.

Duties of a wife

1. Wives subject to their husbands- which is as much as to say they must not contradict them in any point, but rather endeavor to please them by all means.
2. The wife must not forsake her husband in adversity or deride him
3. She must esteem the manners of her husband to be the legal rule of her life
4. She must not be too sumptuos and superfluous in her attire, as decked with frizzled hair, embroidery, precious stones, gaudy raiments and gold put about, for they are the forerunners of adultery.
5. She must not be jealous or mistrust her husband's absence.
6. The sixth duty of a wife is to carefully oversee her household, and to bring up her children and servants in the fear of God.
7. She must not discover her husband's imperfections and faults to any
8.The eight duty of a wife is that she gibe not nor flout her husband but bear with him as long as she may.

Duties of a Husband

1. That he give honor to his wife as the weaker vessel, for she is partaker of the grace of life.
2. He must patiently brook the hastiness of his wife, for there is nothing in the world more spiteful than a woman if she be hardly dealt with, or egged to indignation. 3. The husband in any case must not have affairs with any other but his own wife. A woman is jealous and naturally suspicious, and if her husband breaketh with her, she will not stick to break with him and privily borrow a night's lodging with her neighbor. 4. The husband must not injure his wife by word or deed, for a woman is a feeble creature and not endued with such a noble courage at the man; she is sooner pricked to the heart, or moved to passions than man. 5. The husband, in disputations with his wife, must sometimes confess himself vanquished by her. 6. The husband must provide for his wife and her household according to his ability.
7. The husband must suffer his wife to be merrily disposed before him, otherwise ( a woman's nature is such) she will be stealth find out some secret place or other to tattle and to disport herself.

10 things to keep your romance alive

* 10 things to keep your romance alive

1. Avoid arguing
2. Look for new ways to spice to your love life
3. Be sweet and romantic
4. Trust one another
5. Always be there for each other
6. Never part without kissing or saying i love you
7. Treat your partner with the respect they deserve
8. Make yourself trustworthy
9. Say something sweet to your love everyday
10. Let your partner know your thinking about him/her if he/she is away

*10 romantic gift

1. Candlelight dinner
2. Red roses with a love poem or a kiss
3. Flowers and chocolates
4. Handmade gifts
5. Decorative jars with loving hearts
6. Jewelry (heart shape)
7. Teddy bear
8. a kiss
9. Love letter and poem
10. Romantic message in a bottle

10 things wives wants from their husband

1. Telling Her Daily That She is Loved- Everyone needs to be affirmed. Everyone needs to know that they are loved. The best ways to say i love you are usually in simple, everyday, seemingly unimportant ways like an unexpected hug or holding hands when you walk together.
2. Understanding and Forgiveness- There will be days when a wife make mistakes or when they are difficult to be around. No one is perfect. A wife both wants and deserve willingness to understand and forgive her. Remember that no relationship can be sustained without forgiveness.
3. Conversation- Dont let your conversations with your wife dwindle to nothing but talk about your kids, your jobs and the weather. If that happens. your marriage relationship could be in trouble.
4. Willingness to make time for her and your children- having quality times with your wife and kids isnt something to just happens. You have to make it happen by not only making the plans but by following through. Time with those you love has to be a highly priority to you.
5. Saying yes more than you say no- Habitual negative responses to your wife and kids can push them away from you. Think twice before saying no and you will be surprised on how saying yes could improve your relationship.
6. Listening Well- Its really disheartening for a wife to share her thoughts and feelings with her mate and then realize that he didnt actually listen to her. Your wife wants and need you to not only listen with your ears, but to listen with your heart.
7. Affection and Kindness- How often do u say "please" or "thank you" or give your spouse an unexpected kiss. unfortunately some married couples forget that being kind and affectionate to one another are keys to a successful marriage.
8. Sharing household and child rearing responsibilities- One of the main reason couples fight is conflict who is doing what around the house. Chores and child care are not the sole responsibility of a wife. She shouldnt have to ask you to do your share around the house.
9. A Day off now and then- Give your wife a day off several times a month. this mean that she will be free from worrying about waht is happening to the kids, the house, the pets, and you. She not only deserve this break on her schedule, she needs it to be emotionally and physically healthy.
10. Commitment to take care of yourself both physically and emotionally- Many men are notorious for not taking care of themselves when it come to health issues. This isnt fair to your wife. She is your lover not your mother. Take responsibility for your own health concerns.

10 things husband wants from their wives

1. Believe in His Capabilities- Many men believe it is important for them to protect and provide for those they love. Let him know that you believe in his talents and skills and are supportive of him.
2. Understanding- One of the ways you can both tell and show your husband that you want to understand him is by making a commitment to daily dialogue with him. Daily dialogue takes about 20 minutes out of your day. Isnt your husband worth 20 minutes and much more each day?
3. Affirmation of His Accomplishments- Most guys like to be patted on the back. Give an honest compliment to your husband often. Just dont over do it with sicky sweet oozes of how great he is. that type of affirmation will backfire.
4. Acceptance- Many husband are hurt and angered when their wives tried to change them. Realize that the only person you can change is yourself.
5. Less Chatter- If your husband is tired, or involved with a project, and you really need to talk to him about something, get to the point . if he need the details of the topic he will ask for them.
6. Affection- Hold your husband's hands in the public, leave a message of love on his voicemail, give him a massage, give him an unexpected kiss. Men likes to be romanced too. 7. Respect- Show respect for your husband by not making negative comments about his thoughts and opinions, by being considerate of his plans and avoiding the eye roll when listening to him.
8. Free Time- Most everyone needs some quiet time alone, and time to re-energize, regroup and reconnect. When your husband first get home from work, allow him some free time to unwind if he thinks he needs it. Dont overschedule his days off with projects around the house.
9. Trust- Trust is vital in the success of marriage. If you are having doubts about your husband and find it difficult to trust him, talk to him or seek counselling but not spying.
10. To Be A Companion- Hopefully, you can say that your husband is not just your lover, but also your friend. Staying friends and companions through the years requires that you find ways to make times together and to do things together.

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Long Distance Relationship

Most people consider long distance relationships to be difficult and challenging and without much chance of success. (WRONG!) but its the inability to see each other and spend time together physically is the biggest stumbling block in long distance relationships. But if you are committed enough to get around this difficulty, long distance relationships need not be really different from any other relationship.People who get into long distance relationships are not different from people who are fortunate to have their partners around. They share common interests and an interest in each other’s lives, care for each other and love each other. The only real difference is the inability to be in each other’s presence physically. Consider these thoughts about how you can still make it work for the two of you. Help each other and commit on making the relationship work even if being apart from each other.

*Speak honestly to each other- if there is something you dont like then speak up and open it up
*Have trust in each other. Showing mistrust and accusing your partner can only harm the relationship. My husband would see a little jealousy sometimes as being sweet but too much of it is not good at all.
*Keep each other well informed about your lives. Tell him/her about your friends, your activities and the changes that are happening in your life. This creates a feeling of security and satisfaction between you. My husband gave me his dad's cellphone number and every now and then i would send text to his dad and his dad would text me, sometimes we chat online when his dad is with his girlfriend which i have in contact of her too. My husband has my fathers cellphone number. sometimes when he called me, he talks to my father also. and they stay in touch with text and sometimes chat online.
*Keep in touch as much as possible. Technology has made this really easy. Invent new ways to contact your partner. Show creativity and thoughtfulness. Hearing often from each other keeps you secure. My husband and i would always see to it that we have contact everyday, either on text, or online or calling. It is very important.
*Although you can’t be physically together as much as you wished, make romantic gestures like sending flowers, cards, love poems and gifts. This tells your partner how much you think of them and makes them eager to see you. Every now and then my husband would sent me a love e-mail or sometimes an online e-cards, and letters on the post office, packages, everything that show how special i am. i do the same too, like sending him letters on the mail or e-mail, e-cards and cards. dont forget special dates like his/her birthday, valentines, christmas or anniversary.
*Planning to reunite is an integral part of long distance relationships. If either or both partners are not willing to visit the other once in a while, the relationship cannot be a serious one.It is also crucial to set a limit of how long you will be physically away. Both of you have to come together eventually and settle in the same place if the relationship has to work out. This is an important thing to do, two people in love need each other, emotionally and physically.

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